I have already been internet dating for a short while now and I’ve met some lovely guys, though non-e so far have had that potential to be permanent. I’ve had some great fun (and so have they in certain cases) plus one or two troubles and e-mails that vary from stupid to insulting and quite a few that are charming. Everything that amazed me was just how many messages I received and still do, so if you’re someone who wants to meet women on line let me help you get it right.
To begin with I would once send a polite zero thanks if I wasn’t ” up ” for continuing but the weight of e-mails made that impractical and one of the men I met said he’d rather be ignored than receive a rejection, so no more.
When I receive an approach I recommend from someone who’s not surprisingly taken the time to do a lot more than just glance at my picture and who has something interesting to say then I’ll examine his profile and if everything you need still looks good I’ll respond.
On several occasions I just felt like I was being interviewed for a job by way of guys who were no wonderful catch themselves and did damn all to make me feel special, no surprise they’re still single. May possibly it from some of the fellas I’ve met that a few women have done the interview thing to them as well, so sorry guys this wasn’t me and that is actually a no, no.
It’s what I respond to and I’m sure if you do these things you may successfully meet women online, some great women at that, you’ll certainly get to have some fun, naughty experiences and you might just meet a woman who blows the socks off, I chose the word socks carefully roughness.
Once I do start communicating with someone I want to meet them pretty quickly all being well, again because even though I wanted to do this I do not want my inbox to become full time job! Meeting somebody you’ve chatted to via the internet can be great fun and occasionally it’s just awful. T
Now I’m lost if these problems are when you meet women internet but here’s the deal for me (and my friends feel the same). I’m in no way looking for a sugar daddy, I’m looking for romance, I may n’t need to feel someone’s some lifelong soul mate to sleeping with them, but I would like to feel there’s potential for absolutely adore and certainly respect and mutual liking.
hank goodness I actually haven’t been stood up, but I have met a couple of guys who were less than entirely honest in their profile, or who have some pretty significant self delusion issues. One I didn’t recognise at all from the photographs, was that his mate? I’ve virtually no idea and I don’t hang around long enough to find out. The funniest case, with hindsight only, was any guy who might have been a lady.
So when you meet women online this is some advice about what I expect when we meet directly. Don’t interview me, do not patronise me, do show me you’ve made an effort, do be the person you represent online, do be assured and attentive and if there’s a hint of chemistry I most certainly will give you a fair chance.